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EPISODE 8: How to build a healthy inclusive workplace
In this final episode of our series, we discuss how to move beyond toxic workplaces and build healthier, more inclusive environments. Learn about the key elements of psychological safety, empathy in leadership, and advocacy in toxic work cultures. Discover actionable insights on creating spaces where respect, care, and accountability thrive.
BONUS EPISODE 7: Coping with alcohol
Dani’s eight-year working relationship with a narcissistic colleague nearly cost her everything. In this episode, we explore how avoidance behaviours like alcohol use become survival strategies and what it takes to break the trauma bond and reclaim your life, featuring expert insight from Dr. Daksha Hirani.
EPISODE 7: ‘how to protect yourself against narcissists at work’
In Episode 7 of Narcissism at Work, we dive into the emotional tipping points that force us to confront toxic workplace dynamics. From boundary-setting and trauma bonding to the decision to walk away, this episode unpacks the psychology of narcissistic abuse at work and what it takes to protect your peace.
Launching a Chart-Topping Podcast Without a Marketing Budget
Narcissism At Work Just Hit #11 on Apple’s Mental Health Charts! Here’s a look at what it really means to launch an impact-driven podcast without a PR machine. From toxic leadership and gaslighting to psychological safety and burnout, this is the behind-the-scenes story of how Narcissism At Work became a chart-topping podcast and why it matters.
BONUS EPISODE 6: Losing Confidence as a Manager?
In bonus episode #6 of Narcissism At Work, we hear from Faisa, a manager whose direct report weaponised mental health language to avoid accountability, leaving her anxious, burned out, and questioning her ability to lead. We unpack how emotional manipulation, gaslighting, and unjustified guilt can erode leadership confidence and enable toxic dynamics to thrive.
EPISODE 6: ‘The Mental and Physical Toll of Working with a Narcissist’
In Episode 6 of Narcissism at Work, Leyya and Dr. Daksha Hirani uncover the hidden toll of working with narcissists, from chronic anxiety to adrenal fatigue to total nervous system collapse. This episode sheds light on what many have endured in silence and offers tools for recovery, resilience, and reclaiming your power.
a tool to process stress, anxiety and emotions at work
Ever walked out of a meeting with a tight chest and racing thoughts, wondering if it was you? The S.T.U.F. framework is a powerful tool to help you name and process what’s going on inside. Whether you're facing gaslighting, burnout, or confusion at work, this guide enables you to tune into your body, thoughts, and feelings without shame or self-doubt.
EPISODE 5: ‘Is HR Complicit?’
In episode 5, we discuss how narcissistic traits can take root in workplace systems, from DEI to leadership to HR itself. With insight from Dr. Daksha Hirani and our HR consultant Raakhi Tanvi, we explore the emotional toll of institutional gaslighting, the misuse of NDAs, and how marginalised staff are often the ones most harmed…then blamed.
BONUS EPISODE 4: When Work Trauma Comes Home
In bonus episode #4 of Narcissism At Work, we hear from Mo, whose wife worked under a narcissistic boss, a relationship so toxic it nearly destroyed their marriage and her mental health. We explore the ripple effect of workplace abuse: how narcissistic leaders isolate their victims, hijack ambition, and reframe cruelty as coaching.
EPISODE 4: ‘THE NARCISSISTIC STARTUP’
Narcissistic behaviour often thrives in founder-led startups, hidden behind visionary leadership and toxic hustle culture. Episode 4 exposes the dark side of startup life, from love bombing to gaslighting, and shares trauma-informed tools to help you spot red flags, set boundaries, and protect your self-worth.
BONUS EPISODE 3: The mum guilt trap
In bonus episode #3 of Narcissism At Work, we meet Rani, a working mother whose trust in a so-called supportive colleague unravelled into manipulation, guilt, and burnout. This episode explores how narcissists weaponise mum guilt and performative allyship to control. With expert insight from Dr. Daksha Hirani, we unpack the emotional toll and how to heal from it.
Grey Rocking and Yellow Rocking
Ever felt like someone at work feeds off your reactions, thrives on drama, or constantly pushes your emotional buttons? In our latest post, we explore Grey Rocking and Yellow Rocking, two powerful strategies for protecting yourself from narcissistic behaviour in the workplace.
Resource: the Emotions Wheel to Reclaim Clarity
In Episode 2 of Narcissism at Work, we highlight the Emotions Wheel, a powerful tool to help name what you’re truly feeling. Toxic leaders often gaslight you into self-doubt. The Emotions Wheel cuts through that fog, helping you move from “I’m fine” to “I feel dismissed” or “ashamed.” When you can name it, you can start to process it.
EPISODE 3: ‘The Narcissistic colleague’
In Episode 3 of Narcissism At Work, we explore how narcissistic behaviour shows up between colleagues. These aren’t always the loudest voices in the room. Sometimes, they’re the charming coworker who praises you publicly but undercuts you privately. And the damage they cause is just as devastating.
Reviving Tradition: Pichvai Art in London
We attended Feast, Melody and Adornment: The Art of Pichvai at the Mall Galleries in London, a landmark exhibition founded by the formidable Pooja Singhal. It’s the first major UK showcase of Pichvai, a 400-year-old sacred painting tradition from India, historically rooted in temple rituals but now beautifully reimagined for contemporary audiences.
BONUS EPISODE 2: Fake Inclusion + Startup Chaos
What happens when inclusion becomes a tool for manipulation? In this bonus episode of Narcissism At Work, we hear Aisha’s story, how she joined a so-called “inclusive” start-up only to face emotional abuse, blurred boundaries, and unpack how narcissistic leaders use trauma, chaos, and control to maintain power and the toll it takes on confidence and careers.
EPISODE 2: ‘The Narcissistic Boss’
When narcissistic bosses dominate a team, they don’t just create bad management, they create long-term harm. Their need for control often leads to a culture of fear, confusion, and emotional instability. Teams stop collaborating. Innovation dries up. People walk on eggshells, burning out in silence. We unpack in episode 2: Narcissism At Work podcast.
BONUS EPISODE 1: Power, privilege and trauma bonds at work.
When inclusion is weaponised and boundaries are blurred, narcissistic abuse can thrive, especially when power dynamics are at play. In our first Listener Letter bonus episode, we hear from Maya, a young woman navigating a toxic boss, emotional manipulation, and career fear. Paired with expert insight from clinical psychologist Dr. Daksha Hirani, this episode offers validation, language and tools for recovery.
Part two: The Emotional Cost of Being Unsupported at Work
We’ve already explored what it means when workplaces stay silent during global crises but what about when they fail to provide even the most basic support for their employees? In our latest article, we dive into what happens when there's no acknowledgement, no psychological safety, and no real mental health care at work.
EPISODE 1: What Is Narcissism? How does it show up at work?
Our new podcast, Narcissism At Work, breaks the silence around toxic leadership, workplace gaslighting, and the emotional toll of chronic manipulation. This is for anyone who's ever left a job feeling confused, drained, or like they were the problem. Here’s what you can expect in episode 1.